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1. Talking to a fuss
Instead, say, "We will talk when you're quiet."
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2. Rewarding a fuss
Instead, say, "When you ask me (talk to me) kindly, I will talk to you.
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3. Repeating commands
Instead, go TO the child and help him get started.
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4. Being dramatic
Instead, respond to misbehavior quietly and as if you were bored, but still firm and positive.
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5. Threats & counting
Instead, say something only once and then go help begin the task.
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6. Arguing
Instead, simply smile and proceed as if the child has agreed to your request or suggestion.
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7. Answering interruptions
Instead, silently motion to the child to quietly hold your hand. When you can gracefully interrupt your conversation, respond the child.
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8. Lecturing
Instead, say what you want the child to do in this or that situation and leave it at that. The important thing is to be consistent by holding the child to that standard the next time.
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9. Orders & commands
Instead, use indirect methods, such as Positive Redirection, Quiet Correction and Leading Questions.
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10. What NOT to do
Instead, discuss and show your child, when possible, what TO do next time.
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Wednesday, 14 August 2002 17:00
Top 10 Adult Behaviors to AvoidIn studying common adult behaviors, we find that adults often complicate child management by using inappropriate responses to the behaviors our children use. For example...
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