Frequently Asked Questions about The Think Space
"What is the basic mission of The Think Space?"
The basic mission of The Think Space is to provide both children and adults with a safe and effective guidance tool that helps a child understand what TO do in the future, not simply what NOT to do. Furthermore, The Think Space is a truly practical and effective way to help children build future behavior on a foundation of positive values rather than on the fear of consequences, penalties or punishments.
"How early can you start using The Think Space?"
We suggest starting this exercise at 18 months for "draining" inappropriate behavior. Developmentally, beginning any earlier may not be effective, possibly, even harmful. At about 2.5 years, you may introduce the positive mental planning phase of The Think Space.
"Is this just another variation on the Time-Out theme?"
No, it's as different as night is from day. We understand the rising distaste for Time-Out among some parents and childcare providers, since it is often used as punishment without accountability. In fact, it was our concern over our own use of Time-Out that motivated us to seek other more appropriate forms of child guidance. While this approach temporarily removes a child from the scene of conflict or other inappropriate behavior, the purpose of removal and the way it operates is completely different; and so is the outcome!
"How does punishment figure into the use of The Think Space?"
First, it is important to understand that The Think Space is, at its core, a positive, non-punitive system of communication and motivation. Therefore, punishment, whether physical or psychological, is not part of its operation.
"How long should a child stay in The Think Space?"
The amount of time spent in The Think Space is determined by the child. An attitude adjustment can require just a few seconds while a serious temper tantrum can last several minutes. Ultimately, you want a child to return as quickly as possible to apply the new attitude or behavior.
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What Experts are Saying About The Think Space
What a pleasure to read The Think Space - a refreshing, nurturing, benevolent way we can help our children learn the very important skill of thinking about their behavior. Once learned, children should be able to use it the rest of their lives.
Edward R. Christophersen, Ph.D.,Psychologist/Author, Children's Mercy Hospital
Thorough, comprehensive and filled with wonderful insights.
Montrose M. Wolf, Ph.D., Professor of Human Development & Family Life, University of Kansas
The Think Space provides the quiet but effective structure that children need to learn the important skills required in our world today. What happens is nothing short of miraculous.
Jerry L. Wyckoff, Ph.D., Psychologist/Author, Responsive Centers for Psychology and Learning
This is one of the most effective plans that we have ever used for brain and behavior rehabilitation.
Thomas Russell, Director, Brain Injury Services
User Quotes About The Think Space
The book's friendly style makes it easy and fun to read.
We have a 6-year-old who was really challenging us. We were at our wits' end. After using The Think Space for just two weeks, we were amazed at the progress!
What a great way for adult 'controller types' to release 'control' without losing 'command'!
Somehow, you address several sensitive issues without being offensive!
Now, let's open the door to that wonderful new place -
the THINK SPACE!
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Child Care Provider Magazine Reviews: The Think Space
