We give you tools that help children solve their own problems.

One of great stress producers in raising children is trying to solve their problems for them. On the other hand, think of how much stress you would unload if you could get them to solve their own problems.

Problems like:

• Getting kids to bed easily.
• Getting kids up and dressed without a hassle.
• Getting kids to wear their seat belts — voluntarily!
• Halt fussing and fighting in the car.
• Arrest the whining habit.
• Quieting temper tantrums — safely.
• Turn stubbornness into willingness.
• Reduce bath time resistance to zero.
• Use the “me first” or “I had it first” syndrome as great building blocks for courtesy.
• Turn rudeness into gentleness.
• Encourage individuality and assertiveness in the compliant child.
• Why the behavior that you are trying to stop ends up staying the same or even gets worse!
• What to do when your child says “no” to YOU, or worse — sasses back.

Some of the tools we teach:

• QUIET CORRECTION (The Power of Quiet)

  Have you listened to the number of corrections you offer your kids in a day’s time. Here’s a way to cut your corrective words in half...and accomplish more than all those extra words ever did.

• THE PERFECT CHOICE

  Children need -- and love -- choices. But, we adults often fail to remember that when a child offers resistance to our orders. Here is a way to avoid getting into a contest of wills and still get the thing done that you want your child to do.

• THE THINK SPACE

   

  Tired of time-outs that don't work and punishments that fail to teach? Here’s a way to manage the challenging behaviors of young children that gives them time and space to process their conflicts. This tool helps them focus on what TO do in the future rather than what NOT to do. 

• O.T.R. (Off-Trauma Retracking)

  (10 Seconds That Last A Lifetime)
  Ever wonder why your corrections don't stick? Here is a way to help your child prepare himself on a deep inner level so that your guidance becomes something that your child actually wants to do. It's simple, yet amazingly effective. 

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  MAGIC HANDLES

  Twenty-one simple and practical handles that truly encourage cooperation in children. These are specific words and phrases that diffuse resistance while they encourage cooperation. Make your life with children truly enjoyable and as you learn proven expressions that inspire and motivate. 

• DOZENS OF OTHER STRATEGIES

  Highly useable tools that encourage strong inner growth, a sense of personal responsibility, the development of empathy. You will learn to apply these positive tools in a wide variety of situations. Here’s a safe, solid system that can help you find the success with children that you always wanted but didn‘t quite know how to get there!